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I turned 35 last month and, you know what? Nothing changed. Thirty five is a big number, and I must say that in the years leading up to the big day, I had high expectations of what 35 would be, what my 30s would look like… This is one of those situations where expectations and reality don’t quite jive. The 35 year old I am is not the 35 year old I expected to be.
At 35, I feel like I have mellowed, at least somewhat. All things seem significantly less dramatic. I went bathing suit shopping the other day, having gained a good 5 or 10 pounds since the last time I bought a swimsuit (a combination of one too many layer cakes and aging), and I couldn’t care less what I looked like tucked into a sporty bikini. The suit will do the job of covering my private bits and keeping it all together. It is what it is. To paraphrase Stacy London, I find that at the age of 35, I have fewer f**ks to give, so to speak. The highs and the lows aren’t as far apart as they used to be. I float along somewhere in the middle with a take it or leave it attitude.
I say that I’ve mellowed but I also stressed over what layer cake to make to celebrate 35 because 35 is such a big, important number (or so I thought). I took an entire month to come up with a plan and make this. And when I was shopping for this cake, I still wasn’t entirely sure where I was going with it. I knew I wanted to pile meringues, marshmallows, and fun candies on the top of the cake. That’s about all the decorating I can manage. Truth. But even when I was shopping for the ingredients and making the components of this cake, I changed the plan a few times. I wanted sesame because I’m in love with tahina (you probably call it tahini or sesame butter). I was thinking I’d go with some citrus, maybe orange, but in the end, I opted for sesame+raspberry. It made sense in my head. In this case, again, expectations and reality didn’t quite jive, but unlike turning 35, the reality was above and beyond what I had expected. Fresh tart raspberries combined with sweet nutty sesame flavours are a match made in heaven. I piled on the raspberries with every slice of cake I ate, not because the cake didn’t taste great without them, but the cake tasted even better with them. And because I’m now most certainly an adult at the age of 35, I decided the raspberries were my vegetable for the day. Because I’m 35 and I can do whatever I want. Cake for dinner. Raspberries are vegetables. Hearts everywhere.
And since we are celebrating, I made a video! I hope you like it!
Here are some of my favourite tools to make layer cake recipes like this one:
- Kitchen-Aid 6 quart professional mixer (Amazon)
- Oxo whisk (Amazon)
- Wilton 6 inch cake pans (Amazon)
- Cooling rack (Amazon)
- Ateco mini offset spatula (Amazon)
- Cake tester (Amazon)
- Ateco turntable (Amazon)
- 250 grams (2 cups) pastry flour
- 2 tsp baking powder
- ½ tsp salt
- 153 grams (2/3 cup) unsalted butter
- 60 grams (1/4 cup) sesame butter (tahina)
- 250 grams (1¼ cups) granulated sugar
- 3 large eggs
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
- 188 mL (3/4 cup) 3.25% milk
- 58 grams (1/4 cup) unsalted butter, softened
- 120 grams (1/2 cup) sesame butter (tahina)
- 84 grams (2/3 cup) icing sugar
- ½ tsp vanilla extract
- 100 grams (1/2 cup) granulated sugar
- 21 grams (1/4 cup) all purpose flour
- 188 mL (3/4 cup) 3.25% milk
- 63 mL (1/4 cup) honey
- 42 mL (3 tbsp) 35% whipping cream
- 173 grams (3/4 cup) unsalted butter, cut into pieces
- 1 pinch salt
- 1 tbsp sesame filling
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
- 63 mL (1/4 cup) good quality raspberry jam
- 1 tbsp Chambord liqueur
- Preheat the oven to 350ºF. Butter, flour, and line with parchment three 6-inch cake pans (Wilton on Amazon)
- Whisk together the flour, baking powder, and salt. This is my favourite whisk on Amazon.
- In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment (Amazon), cream the butter and the sesame butter. Beat in the sugar for several minutes until it is well blended, creamy, and light.
- Add the eggs, one at a time, beating for several minutes between each addition and scraping down the sides of the bowl every so often. The mixture should be super light in colour and very fluffy.
- Add the vanilla.
- Add one third of the flour mixture, mix it in on low speed, then half the milk. Continue with half the remaining flour and the last of the milk. Scrape down the bowl sides and then mix in the last of the flour.
- Divide the mixture between the three pans, banging the pans to release any air pockets. Smooth the surfaces of the cakes with an offset spatula and bake them for about 28 minutes until the edges are golden and pulling away from the sides of the pan.
- Let the cakes cool 10 minutes before unmolding to cool completely on a wire rack (Amazon).
- In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, cream together the butter and the sesame butter. Beat in the icing sugar and mix until smooth and thick. Mix in the vanilla. Transfer to a bowl and set aside.
- In a medium saucepan, whisk together the sugar and flour, then whisk in the honey, milk, and the cream.
- Heat the mixture on medium-high heat, whisking fairly often, especially when the mixture comes to a boil. I heated this mixture for about 11 or 12 minutes until it was super thick and gooey.
- Transfer the mixture into the bowl of a mixer, then beat the mixture to cool (this takes a long time) with the paddle attachment. I surrounded the bowl with a couple ice packs to cool it down faster.
- When you are sure the sweet mixture is completely cooled, add in the butter in dollops, while mixing on low, then when all the butter is added, increase the speed to medium-high and whip the frosting until it is light and fluffy.
- Finish the buttercream by beating in one tablespoon of sesame filling, vanilla extract, and a pinch of salt.
- Level the cakes with a serrated knife, then place the first layer on a cake stand. Smooth on half the raspberry filling, then half the sesame filling. Stack on the second cake layer and repeat with the rest of the raspberry and sesame filling, then top with the final layer and frost the sides and top with the last of the frosting. You may want to just do a crumb coat, then chill for 30 minutes so the layers firm up before finishing to frost/decorate the cake.
- Decorate with meringues, marshmallows, sesame snacks, and lots and lots of candy!
Filling and frosting adapted from Baked Elements, which is available on Amazon.